I’m not a Cosmo girl by body shape, occupation or attitude, so it’s always been a challenge to get useful information on those glossy pages. I started sleeping with people at fifteen, and even then I only waited two weeks. As I get older, the amount of time I wait gets less and less…
Here’s the situation:
If I want someone it’s hard to stop me, especially if the person is male, and horny as a genetically programmed trait. There’s this guy I sort of work with. Once a week I sing at the club he manages, so we see each other enough to flirt and get to know each other a bit. I can’t make it a one-night thing, because I’m going to have to see him all the time, so I’m trying to imagine this as a possible “relationship” which it totally isn’t. The sexual tension is hot, but based on how flirtatious we’ve already been, I know if we DO date, I won’t be able to resist fucking him within a few hours.
So here goes my Cosmo Girl sex questionnaire attempt:
1. Will it help the relationship to wait or can I just go for it?
2. How long should a gal like me wait if I want to have more than “just sex” with someone I’m lusting after, and may actually start to date (not professionally)?
3. Is it always a bad idea to screw someone you work with? Even if that work is not an office, but a place where sexiness and entertainment are part of the atmosphere (like a bar or a group of TV writers (David Letterman) or something…)?
