Dead-Set on Changing a Few Minds!

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Hello everyone!  My name is Madeleine and I’m really excited to be a new blogger here! Right now I’m living in Charlottesville, Virginia with my girlfriend, Lauren, and our cat, Dorothy.  I’m taking some time off from being a student at the University of Virginia to figure out what I’m doing with my life.

As a middle child and the daughter of a midwife, I knew how babies were made from a very young age.  When I was just shy of three, I asked my very pregnant mom why she hadn’t had a period in a while, and she explained pretty much all there was to know about baby-making.  At eight, I was humiliated when she brought in a plaster pelvis and a baby doll to teach my girl scout troupe about midwifery on career day.

As a lesbian (and a bit of a late bloomer), though, I didn’t think about sex as anything beyond a straight-forward act of procreation until my line was crossed.  My first year of college, I was raped and beaten by a stranger at a party.  I wish I could say I had a “click” moment after that and became the radical feminist I consider myself today.  It wasn’t until about a year and a half later, though, that I was able to take that experience and channel the anger I felt into something positive.

This past year, I co-founded a co-ed queer fraternity at my university, began speaking on panels to educate the public about LGBTQ issues, and started devouring feminist blogs and literature.  I strive to dispel myths about lesbians, rape survivors, and feminists.  I may not be able to change the world, but I’m dead-set on changing at least a few minds.

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2 Comments on “Dead-Set on Changing a Few Minds!”

  1. 1 Madeleine said at 4:20 pm on July 1st, 2010:

    Oh, and I guess I should add that if you want to find me on twitter, I’m @molly_pockets!

  2. 2 Nancy said at 6:52 pm on July 1st, 2010:

    Hey Madeleine,

    Glad to have you aboard. Thanks for sharing what sounds like an awful experience – and I’m glad to find you here. I’d love to explore ways that consent and sexual boundaries intersect in queer relationships – so often the discourse is “sex” meaning hetero male-female penis/vag interaction. How are the conversations different in queer relationships/hookups?

    Looking forward to more conversations.


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