Comments on: Abandoning Consent in Rape Law http://whereisyourline.org/2009/11/abaondoning-consent-in-rape-law/ Empowering young leaders to end sexual violence. Fri, 11 May 2012 21:00:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Nancy http://whereisyourline.org/2009/11/abaondoning-consent-in-rape-law/comment-page-1/#comment-1520 Nancy Wed, 11 Nov 2009 17:11:22 +0000 http://whereisyourline.org/?p=646#comment-1520 Sadly, I was over booked and didn't make it to the lecture. I'm hoping to do a screening at CUNY, or find a way to bring Dean Anderson into the conversation. Negotiating is crucial in that it implies clear communication and mutual decision making, I just always hear it as a give and take that's not always exactly what you want. Perhaps I think of negotiating through the Middle East or Democratic Health Care Reform lens, where one party gets more than another, or someone has given something up to get something else, and isn't always comfortable. Navigating is how we determine what we want, what we like, what our partner likes, and probably includes bumping around. Its not always smooth, and there are certainly no rules for it. Sadly, I was over booked and didn’t make it to the lecture. I’m hoping to do a screening at CUNY, or find a way to bring Dean Anderson into the conversation. Negotiating is crucial in that it implies clear communication and mutual decision making, I just always hear it as a give and take that’s not always exactly what you want. Perhaps I think of negotiating through the Middle East or Democratic Health Care Reform lens, where one party gets more than another, or someone has given something up to get something else, and isn’t always comfortable. Navigating is how we determine what we want, what we like, what our partner likes, and probably includes bumping around. Its not always smooth, and there are certainly no rules for it.

]]> By: LC http://whereisyourline.org/2009/11/abaondoning-consent-in-rape-law/comment-page-1/#comment-1519 LC Wed, 11 Nov 2009 16:08:39 +0000 http://whereisyourline.org/?p=646#comment-1519 What came out of this? Have you had the chance to talk? I don't have a problem with negotiation, since it doesn't have to be adversarial or involve concessions. I'm not sure "navigation" adds anything. What came out of this? Have you had the chance to talk?

I don’t have a problem with negotiation, since it doesn’t have to be adversarial or involve concessions. I’m not sure “navigation” adds anything.

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